Them decision: three
Independence encouragement Last week I described them a problem.
Them decision: three days in a week at them evening of the good manners, and in the rest of the time they eat as want, and I tell nothing to them.
They even offered, that once a week all of us behaved naturally, not used devices, ate all with hands, even soup!
But I could not agree to it any more.
I told the son: You have twenty minutes to a release.
You can to continue to paint, and then at once to go in bed, or you can be prepared for a dream this hour, and to lie down then in a bed and to play from circus vy small lamps.
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Therefore it is temporarily possible to break communication between the child and the computer.
But it is only a temporary measure, and, eventually, relation will be established, he will stay at home again, will find a spare network cable, will go to the friend or to an Internet cafe, and will spend time there.
Give the highest taste The only correct decision will be to give to the person the highest taste of happiness that he could refuse the lowest taste.
Present that you met the person who eats skins from bananas.
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Otsylaniye of the child to his room can to become an essential security measure, if you in terrible anger see.
How to consult when it is difficult.
It will also allow to part children or to show to the child that you do not suffer his such behavior any more.
The child can order to remain in his room, he so far not will calm down remember that to small children for this purpose can on to nadobitsya your presence.
They will not calm down quickly, if timeout frightens them, leads to a hysterics or if they pros that is not understood that from them it is required see.
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And ninety percent are own, individual, emoktsionalny history of the person, child, wife or husband which are connected with impressions as it is accepted to speak in Vedic psychology, from antecedents.
The rule tenninety helps the person to hold a little the attachment to the child, to treat that happens to it more quietly, remembering that the child has to endure the emotional history, to get rid of its burdensome influence generally through manifestation of negative emotions.
The real force and authority of parents is born when parents freely allow to show to the child negative emotions, thus without being under their influence, that is, without being at a stage of emotional slavery.
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When parents snatch on themselves I again forgot the key.
Yes that with me such?
It is necessary was to make such nonsense!
As I could appear such silly woman?
I will never be cleverer, children do conclusion that and it is necessary to treat himself, when they with vershat a mistake.
Let's provide instead to them more a forehead the eternal and directed on a solution sample.
If we do something that it was better not to do and howl it is used it as opportunity, that loudly to tell itself: About the devil, better I would not forget this key.
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Feeding by a breast cheap, conveniently also does not demand washing on courts but not always goes simply.
The popular image of mother with the child at a breast renders sil Nov influence as a rule, it has not enough relation to reality can also cause sense of guilt and disappointment, when you feel rather dairy cow, than Ma ground with the baby.
Many women quickly give up, poskol ku meet difficulties and, as a result, believe, quarrystone that is done chtoto incorrectly.
Actually, though many mothers and kids with ease get used to feeding by a breast and over time almost all derive from it pleasure, neko tory with surprise find out that such feeding to a treb et forces and energy which not are available for all.
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