And though
Usually such paranoichesky state begins that for any mistake we are worthy very severe punishment.
And though unlike the child they are already capable to logical thinking, it testifies that till nine years they did not get due experience of experience of own innocence when I am good such is what I am.
It is very difficult for many parents to accept it therefore many mothers traditionally rigidly react to behavior of the children who, suppose, on a visit behave not really accurately, something is broken or beaten.
Feeling guilty for an act of the child, mother feels fear that she is bad mother, and shows it as anger, bringing down it on the child in the form of punishment.
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