Here the principle
But a duty, a debt, parental Dharma as tell the Veda to help children to become better.
Here the principle of sincerity which is as follows works: make everything that in your forces and manage what that time, maybe, even very long to live, without receiving the answer and visible, notable results of which it would be possible to be proud.
The child will simply absorb in himself as the sponge, manifestations of care, guardianship, recognition, support, and will show them for those who will live near it.
Perhaps, it will occur many, many years when its destiny disperses from destiny of parents or even later after they already die.
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